Behind Every Man Is An Incredible Women — Meet My Wife Alyssa

When my wife and I first met, I was astounded by her ability to walk into any room and build lifelong relationships in minutes.

I just watched her building relationships with some different social media influencers, and even over the internet, her happiness and personality seem irresistible.

Alyssa’s passionate about children; ever since she was little, she dreamed of taking care of them. When others were dreaming of their wedding day, Alyssa’s dream was to nurture the next generation.

However, like many of us, Alyssa found traditional education boring, challenging, and unrelated to her passion for helping children grow.

Sitting in a classroom made her feel like she wasn’t smart, as though something was wrong with her.

After high school, Alyssa felt like she didn’t have a choice and needed to go to college. She just finished high school! Doing two to four years of college on top of it was like a bomb hit her life.

But it would turn out to be a blessing in disguise…

After bouncing between classes and trying out different college careers from nursing to physical therapy, she landed in an early-childhood development class. The courses showed her the finer points of raising children to be the educated, positive, and loving leaders we need.

By starting down that path, Alyssa was able to turn her childhood passion of helping children into a successful career that spanned across multiple states, schools, businesses, and occupations.

Alyssa continues to touch the hearts of many children and parents, but she transitioned to scaling her passion by helping me write a children’s book. The children’s book came because we took our strengths (children and leadership) and combined them to reach our future generations with a powerful new message.

However, neither of us knew how to reach the millions of people we knew we were capable of impacting.

As a result, we started building relationships on social media with incredible people who inspire us. Their love, generosity, kindness, and willingness to serve fill us with light, and we’re grateful for each of them.

Making friends with these fantastic people allows us to serve them and bring value to their lives through our books and content; everyone wins.

It allows people who didn’t know us to benefit from our message. It also brings social proof to our influencer friends who get to share meaningful content with their followers.

The most significant benefit is that we all grow and become a valuable network of positive, like-minded people who support each other on our journeys through life; we’re all trying to figure it out together.

Alyssa and I have ultimately become people who always reach up in the world by bringing others up with us.

As a result, our family is rich in love, service, and contribution to humanity. Money and numbers always follow service, never lead. And we know that “we can have anything we want, as long as we help enough people get what they want.” Zig Ziglar

What I want you to take from this story is that leadership is about relationships. Consider who you surround yourself with and always strive to reach up build a network of people who never stop growing.

Get my FREE master guide “Lead Your Life” and I’ll show you how to become a leader who builds valuable relationships that help you reach your next level. You’ll also learn how to use leadership to have more free time for the people you love.

Instagram: (Me) @wesleesuccess (Alyssa) @alyssaaloha